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when I am without a spiritual solution

 

 

sometimes 3: Yet another rude truth for some

 

 

Sometimes trying to help is trying to help.

And sometimes trying to help is trying to control.

 

(But I believe that if you're worried that while trying to do the former you might actually be doing the latter then, by the very fact that you're worried about it, you're probably actually doing the former and probably not doing the latter.  Probably).

another rude truth for some

 

 

 

 

 

 

(And when I buy into that belief, starring in the movie-in-my-mind in some sort of Rebel/Martyr Epic, I indulge my ego to such a degree that it leaves the door wiiiide open for my alcoholism.)

 

you say you wish

 

 

Ouch.

For some,

(and most definitely for me sometimes),

an ungentle

terrible

truth.

you feel special

 

 

part

of

what

makes

playing

the

victim

so

seductive

is

that

it

makes

you

feel

special.

Lots of disappointments?

 

Lots of disappointments? 

Ummm...

maybe that's because you have lots of expectations.

 

(You might want to look at that.)

 

a rude truth for some