Just
because
you
know
a lot
about
sex
doesn't
mean
you know
anything
about
intimacy.
In fact, for me, one of the things I learned in the sexual inventory of my 4th Step was how I used sex to avoid intimacy -- in other words, to keep people from seeing Me.
And to keep me from seeing Me, too.
In my experience, when it comes to how alcoholism takes good, healthy things and twists them to its own service in a never-ending drive to isolate the alcoholic, physical intimacy is not about closeness or truth -- or even fun, really. It's about walls or masks.
Are the Guy Fawkes masks an intended pun? ;)
Posted by: just wondering | November 29, 2011 at 09:29 PM